HATRED

Truth is, there are people in my life I love by virtue of it is written: “Thou shall love thy neighbors as I have loved thee”. (by the way, the next time you’re getting me a bible for my birthday gift, make it a King James version. How I love the Shakespearean language! Thank you.)But this is because at times I tend to overlook God’s own extravagant love for me. What if Christ died for me just because God forced him to?  There would have been no compassion. I’d still be dredging up my past sins and mistakes and facing the consequences. I’d still be schlepping all my past filth. Yeah, that’s how I’d be without His forgiveness.

You know, Jesus was crucified on the cross so that we could stop crucifying ourselves. He was hung up for our hang-ups. How is that? There’s something Perks told me sometime back that when we give God all our mistakes and failures, he throws them into the deepest part of the sea then he puts up a sign that says “No Fishing”. He doesn’t want us to keep dredging up our sins. Neither does he want us to dwell on our past hurts. And all it takes is a forgiving heart.

We seriously can’t allow guys who have hurt us in the past to continue hurting us. The point is, each time we dwell on these past offences, we allow them to hurt us again. Okay, let’s be practical, how many times have you felt better after thinking about a past mistreatment? Hardly any! Many at times we end up feeling even worse.

It’s actually from these poignant reminders that lead us to harboring bitterness. Nine times out of ten the desire and feelings of vengeance are the result. The anger festers into bitterness. Bitterness leads to rage and rage is the spirit behind murder. And who said termination of human life pleases God?

God wants you to be the very best. So get down on your knees and repent for harboring ill feelings. Why should we let hatred stop us from becoming the very best that He wants us to be?  It’s so easy to harbor hatred in one’s heart, trust me. The problem is, it always resurfaces. It adds fuel to the fire. And hey, what’s the reason for your loads of unanswered prayers? And just if I may ask, why do we forfeit blessings and power God desires for us?

Friend, we might list down millions of reasons why we cannot forgive but it all gets back to us: we are hurt over and over! Promise me you’ll think over this. Thanks.